DHs ex has finally pushed me over the edge!  I just don;t know what to do.  I seriously can't take any more of her BS as well as the oldest stepdaughter.  She is just plain EVIL!  I love my hubby SO much, but I fear for my safety and that of my girls.  Part of me wants to leave, but I have no job, can't get one, no money and no where to go.  I am truly stuck between a rock and a hard place!!

If I could I would move all of us so they couldn't find us, but legally we have to let her know where we are because Stacie still lives here and isn't 18 until April. We can't change our phone number for the same reason.  If only we had an extra $200,000 laying around, I would move, but keep this house and I would bring Stacie over here for her to pick her up at and drop her off, keep the phone number here, and just have Stacie check the voice mail so I wouldn't have to deal with it.

I seriously thought I was going to have a heart attack today after her phone call, my heart was beating SO hard and fast, I was shaking so badly I couldn't even make Shelby a PB&J!

HELP!

I'm sorry I have no advice, especially without knowing any of the details.

Just want to let you know - you are being thought of and I hope that a solutions comes your way / DH takes the appropriate action needed to keep you & your family safe.

Leeanne , unfortunately when were not the first ,exes seem to be often unpleasant  parts of territory.. But one day, when kids they made are all grown up  contact becomes minimal  Its  Something to look forward too.   

    A few tips helped me back in the day... Be nice to her , Never let her know she rattles your cage ,   and after her  calls stand in soundproof room and scream!!!! Then place Smile back in place  and move on with life ... Don't let her get to ya !! It makes them satisfied to know youre upset and gives them power. Take the power away ..     

I have to say that my Stacie saw the complete wreck that I was after the phone call and when she went down to her mother's for the weekend, put her foot down.  I love that girl!!  She made her mother buy her a cell phone (just a tracfone) so she will never have to call me again.  If she ever wants to talk to Stacie, then she will call the cell phone and not my house phone. 

That takes away some of the pressure, but I did find out that the crazy one is moving back to the city that we live it.  I will be going to the court house this week and filing for a restraining order.

My goodness! That had to be one heck of a phone call to get you that upset!!! Well glad the one was smart to get a tracphone. That should help some.

Good Luck.