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Title: Anyone homebirth or UC?
Posted: 5 months ago

I haven't done it yet, but after my last birthing experience, I am determined that the next baby will be born at home and I'm 90% positive I will be doing it unassisted.  DH is fine with me having a home birth... as long as he doesn't have to be home while it's happening Tongue out

Just wondering if any of you mamas had had HBs, especially any HB or UC after a c-section.  My first two were natural and the 3rd was a cluster F of white coats interfering with my body's ability to birth my child.  I wound up with a c-section and wouldn't wish that on ANYONE!!  One Dr. told me that any future children had better be c-section, too... so, me being me, I'm bent on having an UHBAC.  LOL

Speaking of the next pregnancy, I'm anxiously in a 2ww right now and having SO many symptoms!!  I hope they're not in my head!  I should know for sure in the next few days, so wish me luck!

 

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Title: Anyone homebirth or UC?
Posted: 5 months ago

I say rock on with your tuff self! and darn the white coats!

I would love to have had mine at home, I know after doing natural with Olivia that I could do it again but I"m done having them... But really would have loved to have done it at home!

I woudnt do it unassisted though, I woudl have a doula or a mid wife or something incase emergency some one could call for help. and provide minimal medical asst. just incase..

my understanding about Vbacs is that it is a lil risky due to scar tissue on the uterus it makes it easier for a rupture and that can cause complications.

talk with your OB. talk with mid wives get all the info you can befor the time comes!

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Title: Anyone homebirth or UC?
Posted: 5 months ago

I so wanted a home birth for my 2nd one.  When I talked to my DR. he said he wish he could do home births- I wanted to make out with him right there because he was so HOT- just kidding no because he was so cool and encouraging (and hot) that I decided to stay with himSmile

Have you tried The Bradley Method of birth- very encouraging of home births and helped me with both my babes...drug free!  If we ever have a third I am so doing home birth!

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Title: Anyone homebirth or UC?
Posted: 5 months ago

I have not yet considered the Bradley Method, but would definitely give it a shot although I'm pretty sure I could implement much of what they teach myself.

As for learning as much about it as possible, I've been reading extensively - it's part of why I'm so excited to have one/go through it.  There are a ton of great HB and UC birth stories on mothering.com - they give me so much hope & courage!  And, of course, if I ever get another BFP (I'm out for this month - AF came yesterday), I'd dive head first to get every shred of informaiton possible b/c I'm a knowledge junkie Laughing

I'm just glad nobody's calling me crazy LOL   I'm sure many read my post & thought it, but nobody said it.  Of course, it is kind of expected just b/c I'd have said the same thing when I had my first & second sons (14 & 9 years ago respectively).  I was *almost* courageous enough to consider it 2 years ago and really, really wish I had trusted my instincts on it... so, now, out of regret comes empowerment.  I guess I went through that experience for good reason after all! 

 

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