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Mom2SavvynShelbyJoined: 8/29/06 Posts: 748 Mommytalking Legend Rep points: 7131 Send PM | Title: Bullies Posted: 8 months ago
I am having a lot of trouble with a girl at school bullying Savannah. I have talked with her teacher and the social worker and it still continues. I am calling the principal tomorrow.
LeeAnn Mom to Lara (24) Stacie (17) Savannah (7) and Shelby (5) | |
DanJakeJoe08Joined: 1/20/08 Posts: 212 Expert Mommytalker Rep points: 1367 Send PM | Title: Bullies Posted: 8 months ago You have started doing the right thing. If after talking with the principal of your school, and still nothing is done, then go to your superindent of schools and to the school board, to see if something can be done. Bullying in schools is getting so out of hand now a days. Kids are afraid to go to school anymore. Good luck to you and your daughter. | |
mommyo2Joined: 12/02/07 Posts: 1902 Mommytalking Super Legend Rep points: 12624 Send PM mommyo2 is online! | Title: Bullies Posted: 8 months ago Sounds like your on the right path. Best wishes. | |
antygammaJoined: 1/11/07 Posts: 3828 Mommytalking Oracle Rep points: 28030 Send PM | Title: Bullies Posted: 8 months ago
So sorry to hear that . My KK was often bullied at schools,and we did all we knew ....from teaching her to try and befriend the bullies, to reporting them, to offering suggestions things she might try differently . to changing classes..... She was such a lonely child because tho she did make friends she was teased and called so many names.. Once in Naples at the laundramat I heard some kids beingcruel saying really mean things and I went to listen and investigate They were mocking my dear daughter i heard her name no mistake Thank God she wasnt there But I DEFINATELY stepped in, and gave those kids a few things to think about and one girl after became my dds best friend once she gave her a chance they became inseperable I was so angry but I didnt yell or berate as I wanted to do at first nor did I cry thhinking what she must endere when present I just firmly pointed out how would they like it if peeps pointed out their flaws so mean >> and few other stuff Then dropped bomb it was MTY kid theyd been taunting and How it hurt moms when others hurt their kids ... ....She was brave ,she was strong and courageous girl all thru school. She had some ugly scars from surgery and childhood illness a short leg and that made her diff. She was chubby, With her self confidence shattered .Yet she was caring, she befriended others all thru scholl and many jobs and never gave up .
Phil 4:8 think on those things that are true,honest,just,pure,lovely and of good report,if there be any virtue any praise, think on these things Jesus loves the little children !!! HES GOT THE WHOLE WIDE WORLD IN HIS HANDS !!! | |
jacrormommyJoined: 1/22/08 Posts: 58 Unstoppable Mommytalker Rep points: 589 Send PM | Title: Bullies Posted: 8 months ago
You are definitely on the right path. Hopefully you will begin to see some quick results after talking with the principal. It is sad though that you are even having to talk to the principal. It is sad to see the way that so many of our children have become.
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keriazJoined: 9/02/06 Posts: 1719 Mommytalking Legend Rep points: 9147 Send PM | Title: Bullies Posted: 8 months ago
Most schools in the US have a zero tolerance against violence of any sort. But do the schools enforce it not really. My son was picked on alot in elementary school and he is still picked on in 9th grade. I told my son to ignore them, walk away for years!!! Nothing worked. Finally I told him if a student swings at you FIRST you finish it! Only if the other student throws the first punch. He never did anything until one day that kid caught my son around the neck and my son tried to hit the kid in self- defense. He missed but the boy got kicked off the bus for the rest of the school year and my son and this boy got suspended for 3 days for fighting. I told my son that for those three days we'd party. He held off long enough but the kid wouldnt leave him alone. After that day this boy never bothered my son again. I dont condone him going out and randomly fighting with someone but he has the right to defend himself.
Solamente el fuertes sobreviven - Only the Strong Survive! | |
Mom2SavvynShelbyJoined: 8/29/06 Posts: 748 Mommytalking Legend Rep points: 7131 Send PM | Title: Bullies Posted: 8 months ago I called the principal this morning and she seemed less than happy when I described the situation to her. I hope this gets something done. She did tell me to call her if anything else happens. LeeAnn Mom to Lara (24) Stacie (17) Savannah (7) and Shelby (5) | |
jacrormommyJoined: 1/22/08 Posts: 58 Unstoppable Mommytalker Rep points: 589 Send PM | Title: Bullies Posted: 8 months ago
Hopefully you will see some results.
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