Posted: 3 yearss ago

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Posted: 3 yearss ago

I know there will be denial here for some  but I doubt there are many females alive whove ALWAYS been in the mood when they started  LOL.... As women  many of us have been brought up on the Never deny your man theories    cept as a punishment hehheh...... But   unless you just hate  SEX    period    I agree that most of us DO feel better after..... simply because  its a connection,  and we need that .( Sorry if I sound a lil woozy I took pain meds and they are starting to work.... )   Anyway  speaking for myself, Ive often felt  more loving  towards him after, even when sex was furthest thing from my mind   tho in our case I was the Higher sexed person, while his libido has always been lower.... so its surprized him back in the day when he learned I wasnt ALWAYS in the mood     And its same for men ladies.... They FEEL closer to US after, even when  they arent really in the mood to start....Generally speaking...

Posted: 3 yearss ago

I do push through my exhaustion sometimes to have sex-and it does feel good.  I think it also helps to talk to your SO about sex.  chances are he feels the same way.  I remember hearing once you don't need vitality it gives you vitality

Posted: 3 yearss ago

of course I have had sex when I didnt feel like because i was oblagated to it in sorts...

I felt so bad for DH after brad was born and I was having huge issues with not wanting to... But I did cause that was my job... and for me I never really felt closer to him after those times more like a feeling like thankful that it was over and the lights didnt come on and i didnt have to stop to go pee and the baby didnt wake to nurse. Thats when things were a chore... all is well now though;)

Posted: 3 yearss ago

After what seemed  like years of stress, money, nursing (ok 11 months seemed like years some days) setting up business, and Life just being super busy, it seemed like DH and I drifted apart, Now that we both realized that, we also have been just too tired to have any intimacy..wow   Thank God that life changed,   I think the conversation we had felt like 'someone hitting me over the head with a shovel" as my dear husband put it...lol  

But thats what the big obstacle was for us, we didn't communicate, except for the daily necessity....so once we had our big talk we became much closer to eachother,   so now almost back to where we were pre-child  sex life...lol and I thought we'd never make it to that point...

Now all I can do is be so thankful for my life, my hubby and my honesty, because that Lovey-Dovey feeling after sex lasts well into the next day.. and wow does it feel good to be head over heels in love with Jeff again!!

Posted: 3 yearss ago

I think every women has..  I know I have and still do...  It has seemed to have become a Chore since our daughter was born..  His day consists of waking up for lunch watching tv, playing PS2, taking a shower, playing with Adriane and going to work..  This is everydays routine.   And when he gets home at 1230am he wakes me up for a lil action..  I work part time and obviously all of you know that being a MOM and a WIFE is a full time job in itself..  So anyways I jsut want to go to bed after I've done all the dishes picked up the house  done the laundry paid the bils ect ect..   We had had several chats about him needing to help out with household chores and with Adriane, he trys for a couple of days and then we are back to square one..  Life was never this way before our daughter.. 

So ladies my answer is YES probably more frequently than most

Posted: 3 yearss ago

There have been several time post kids that I have started the act of sex and did not feel like it.  However by the end, my engine is going and I am so glad "I WENT THERE". 

No matter what anyone says we all have, even the men, although it does not take as long to reve a mans engine like a woman's, but in the end all of us want o reach the winner's circle and have that jug of milk.