My biggest fear was that i would forget that i had a baby to take care of. I would have nightmares of leaving my baby in the carseat in the family room and leave the house for all day and then come home and the baby was still there. I would remember that i had a baby and then feel horrible for leaving them home alone allday.

Luckily i have never done this. But it was so afraid that i would.

My Husband makes all the money. But i make sure the bills are paid. He tried doing it but he never had time and always paid the bills late. So i pay the bills but we together decide what happens and what the budget is.

i read somewhere about a senator who is a woman. Maybe Shelice can help me with this one. But anyways she was talking about how stay at home moms are nothing but moochers and that they don't do anything proactive all day. That they are sending there poor husbands to work and staying home mooching off of them. It's just sad to see some one who hasn't even been in the situation to place a negative tone on it.

 When i read this i was so disgusted with her. Stay at home moms do earn their keep. They earn a lot more than money. They earn there children's confidence and trust. They help them grow they get to see everything their children do and learn. That is the most rewarding aspect i see as being a stay at home mom. 

I am not saying that there is anything wrong with being a working mom. But it just is frustrating when someone who has never been a stay at home mom tells you that you are just mooching off your husband and that you aren't doing anything that is important. I am sorry but raising our children who is our future i hold as a very important job.