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mom5Joined: 5/31/08 Posts: 2 | Posted: 5 months ago i am 31 and i have 5 kids. i have got married to a great man (one of the kids belong to him) i am having a problem with the 4 that dont belong to him acting like he has no say at all in there lifes. there real dad has passed aways along time ago and he is the closest thing they have to a dad. how ever it seems to be more fighting than anything else in our home. no matter what i say or do it never is the right thing. every one of them even the step dad say's i am taking sides. my 12 year old has one of the worst attitudes and has become so hatefull to everyone all the way to the point where she is even disrespecting me. i ask her if it is her step dad making her act this way and she says no she loves him and he is part of the family. how do i get everyone to stop and get along. please help me
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mom5Joined: 5/31/08 Posts: 2 | Posted: 5 months ago okay my wife gets on here. today after talking to my wife and her grandma i have found out alot of things that have gone on in here life that were beyond bad. she was abused in every way you can think of. her mom and dad used to make her work for sex at the age 12 and if she did not she would get the crap bet out of her. she use to run away all the time growing up and was put into dhs 3 or 4 times. i have been trying to get her to talk to me about it but she would always change what we were talking about. how do i get her to understand that sometimes there is no reason for the things that went on in life and to move on. and to stop feeling like she owes her dad the world for adopting her. she has no we have 5 kids and she is a great mom to them. she is just so sad all the time. and i wont to help make her happy. but i am not sure how to help her move past all that hapend to her in her lfe. she has tried conseling but it did not help. all she says is that she wonts to here sorry form her dad (her mom has died) and wonts him to tell her why he let the things happen to her. like she tells me. i was a kid and parents are not ment to hurt there kids they are ment to love them and keep them safe at all cost. so she wont answeres i am not sure she will ever get. so how do i help her get over her past. because is a wonderfull person and a loving mom.
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