When I found out that I was having a girl (second child) I was worried more so of raising her with the proper understanding that her body is hers and hers only and it is to be respected by others. There are so many girls out there having sex willy nilly that it is pretty scary. I want her to respect herself enough not to have sex until she is married. 

Also wasnt prepared for that monthly stuff. Arrrrgh. But we have gotten through that part now.

Solamente el fuertes sobreviven - Only the Strong Survive!

Solamente el fuertes sobreviven - Only the Strong Survive!

Shoot I cant remember that lon ago! I liked being outside. I was a loner and didnt have any friends. Still dont really. I have friends here and my partner and I are great friends but that is it.

Oh well

Solamente el fuertes sobreviven - Only the Strong Survive!

Ask her when she is talking with your daughter to use her indoor voice. Yelling at young children doesnt help and it doesnt accomplish anything.

Tell her that you enjoy her friendship but yelling at your daughter for things might strain that friendship. Explain to her that you will handle your child's behavior and that she should tend to her child.

Solamente el fuertes sobreviven - Only the Strong Survive!

Most likely he has already passed this small ball.  It shouldnt get lodged anywhere.
Has your child complained of abdominal pain? Unusual fever or the like? If so get to the dr.

But I think it has passed. If you feel more at easy head for the Dr on Monday.

Solamente el fuertes sobreviven - Only the Strong Survive!

I dont have an offical will yet. But I have some papers filled out as to what will happen with my kids.  When I figure out what is gonna happen in the near future I will plan accordingly.

Solamente el fuertes sobreviven - Only the Strong Survive!

Well I have absolutely had it with my husband. He will never change. He is suppose to cut down on his drinking and when Im home he drinks a 12 pack of beer. But when I am at work he goes back to 18. Im so sick of it. Im going to file for a divorce most likely Thursday.

Last Sat was the final straw. I was laying in bed watching TV and my daughter came in screaming and in tears saying Daddy was going to hurt Phaylin with a knife. He didnt have one at all but he was laying on top of my son who was on the couch telling Dad to get off.  Later he thinks he wants sex from me when he is royally drunk? I dont think so. The safety of my kids and our wellbeing is more important then him.

BUT.... Im scared too. Never been alone in my life before. He was my first and only Boyfriend. And I married when I was 18. Im 33 now. I want him out this week but I dont know how to say it.

Right now he is passed out drunk. He came in wanting sex again but I wont do it. He told me that when I weigh 130lbs  then I will be more attractive to him. I weigh only 155. Im working on it. Sheesh.

Solamente el fuertes sobreviven - Only the Strong Survive!

Solamente el fuertes sobreviven - Only the Strong Survive!

Thanks Pezzy for the offer. But he is moving out not me! I have a 3 bedroom 1600sq ft house and it is in my name only. So he goes.

And thanks for all the support. Im just so tired of his crap. He bought me roses and a card yesterday. Whoooppppeee! He just signed his first name. No I love you or anything. Sheesh. Its not gonna help.

Solamente el fuertes sobreviven - Only the Strong Survive!

Thank you. I do appreciate it.

My only fear is being alone. Never been on my own to begin with let alone two kids who are teens. Sheesh.  I am also afraid of how to tell him to leave that Im done. I have thought about writing a letter and leavaing it in the truck when he leaves for work if he does on Thurs.

Solamente el fuertes sobreviven - Only the Strong Survive!

Thanks for the support everyone. I need all that I can get.

My kids already know that Im leaving. They dont like Daddy when he drinks. My daughter asks me when I am gonna divorce Dad. I said soon. I hope that he gets sober and stays that way but I doubt it very much he will.

I have begun changin my passwords on my computer so that he cannot see things Im doing. Changed my checking account password so he cant see my money. He has no connection to my checkin accounts or my home. There are a few of my utilities that I need to change into my name.

He has told me a month ago while he was drunk (see the pattern?) that he will get the kids in the divorce. I know he wont. Nobody in their right mind would give sole custody to a man who is drunk every night and doesnt have a stable job.

Im just so freaken tired!!!!

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I know the restraining orders arent worth the paper they are written on most times. That is why Im changing the utilities over to me and making it so that I am the only one to change things.

Im sorry you had a rough life like that. I dont want my kids to see that anymore. They hate thier father.

Oh one thing about someone threatening to kill themselves... You can call 911 and explain that he is wanting to kill himself. You loose ALL rights to make decicions at that point. I have in my career taken many people to the hospital after they have threatened suicide. They will be taken to the local ER and they have to stay for 24 hrs. If they fight they will be restrained. I have restrained many people both men and women. I have wrestled with Patients before also. See my husband tried that before too. Tried with a gun years ago and three yrs ago tried to take a whole bottle of sleeping pills. I have stopped him three times. Now I just dont care. Im sorry if it sounds mean.

Im tired of being treated like this and not having the money we should have to live. For petes sake. He needs to grow up and get a real job.

He told me Sat that he got a job offer and that if he didnt work Monday that he would go apply. Well monday came and went. He didnt.  I hate the lies. grrr

Solamente el fuertes sobreviven - Only the Strong Survive!

That was a great article.

Makes ya think about how life is short and things can change. Thanks for that!

Solamente el fuertes sobreviven - Only the Strong Survive!

Hey.\

Thanks. Well my kids are old enough to care for themselves for a few hrs a day. They are nearly 14 and 12. I cannot afford a lawyer so I will do this on my own.  Its not gonna be easy but I will make it.

Solamente el fuertes sobreviven - Only the Strong Survive!

Solamente el fuertes sobreviven - Only the Strong Survive!