I was born in Oshkosh-then to Waukegan IL Then another town I don't remember then Manteno IL then Chicago IL then Bourbonnais IL then Oshkosh WI then DH and I moved to Sun Prairie WI.  I moved alot as a kid there is another town between Oshkosh and when my family moved to IL. 

Eric lived in the same town only moving to a bigger house.  He still talks to some of his old  school buddies, one he started with at kindergarten, and is N Godfather.  It makes me jealous I don't have that close friendship.  I told E when N starts school we are taking root.  I guess we will be in Sun Prairie awhile A different perpective.

Rachel Qod answer ... yesterday got me thinkin'- I too do alot of day trips with my kids.  We will just get in the car and pick a destination.  So do you do the same- where do you plan to go- pick 5 here-

1. THe Madison Capital.  There a shops, museums, and on Saturdays the market. You could spend hours and not see everything

2.One day trip I hope to take this summer is to Door County- E and I were engaged there so it might be fun to take the kids there.

3. Of course to Grandmas but that ends up being a weekend trip so I guess it doesn't count!

4. ALthough from gmas we will go up North to a lil' town that has shops and the best candy store ever!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

5. Milwaukee Zoo but we will see DH is not to thrilled with that one

I don't think you are going to like what I say but I have to say it- You need to side  more with you daughter then your husband.  Even if your husband isn't molesting her SOMEONE HAS OR IS molesting her!

My sister works at a holding facility for sexual predators and has training in all aspects.  Your daughter is demonstrating behavior of a molested child.  It is scary and she does need help in a positive way!!!  She does need to be removed for the current situation and isolating her is the absolute worst thing you could do.  She needs your guidence, she is 12.    

Sounds like my dh- maybe they were seperated at birth.  I couldn't mail something for him, he got pissed.  I was in the post office it was taking forever and Meg was throwing a fit. 

 Tell him to write it down, although if your like me you'll throw it away  As a mom our thoughts go in 50 different directions, it is hard to keep track of everything.  Next time I will lie and tell him I sent it then do it the next day- or as the great pezzy says tell him to shove it!

I have been rockin' out to the new Barenaked Ladies kids CD Snacktime.  It is so good check it out..

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x1cnJ_pOAdQ&am ...

http://www.bnlmusic.com/snacktime/ ...