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Just a heads up 

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Bless me mommytalkers.....it has been 1 day since my last confession

I usally clean an hour before dh gets home then act like i have been cleaning all day- I complain about how tired I am.  I do work hard but i am starting to really kind of enjoy it- I just don't want him to think that he can take advatage of the fact I like to clean-  I still think he should pick up after himself, put dirty dishes in the dishwasher etc.  I just think there is a fine line between being a partner and being a slave in  my dh case.

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Okay if you don't agree with the techniques of this article some of it is pretty funny- I will try it .

Okay I know we have a group- but we all need to let it out- a bitch board if you will.  i will start.

Yet again my not so DH let another special occasion go by without anything.  I was willing to let it go until he told me the guys at work were making joke Valentines-What you guys were joking and you didn't think that your wife the mother of your children would need a little real no joke gift.  Yes I have all the supplies to make fancy cards- i scrapbook so it is easy for me- Yes i have set aside time to do it.  But meanwhile right now his ass is plastered to the couch.  I don't have to make those special things I can sit on my ass all day but I love to make these moments special for my kids.  A piece of paper, crayons and some ribbon we have a memory.  The kicker this jerk off works at a paper converting factory-they cut paper all day.  DO NOT tell me you couldn't of picked a scrap off the floor drew a heart and wrote a heartfilled message! 

I guess it depends on how the bathroom looked-  I do try to avoid public bathrooms at all costs but if the need arises I look at my surronding.  The thing is even if you flush with your foot you still have to use your hands to unlock and open the door-and not everyone is a foot flusher.  Wash,wash,wash then I dry my hands get a dry papertowel and shut of the sink if need be then push the main bathroom door with my foot or shoulder.