Sex is a huge part in a marriage, really in most adult relationships. Why is it that once we become moms our sex lives kinda get put on the back burner? Do you have any tips to share on how to keep that spark alive? Click here to read the article ...

Lack of time for one. Another after having kids most women dont feel sexy enough or feel wanted enough by our spouses.

I have no tips. I havent had sex with my husband or rather EX in a year. No desire to over this year.

I find letting him know early in the day that things are lookin' up .  It leads to the excitement.

 

I flirt!! I text him little sweet/sexy messages during the day it builds up the anticipation by the time we get home. It keeps things light and new.

I think I may be a freak when it comes to sex, or I just plain don't care about what goes around the house then.

I used to be the same way years back. At first when I was just married sex sucked!! I would sometimes cry muself to sleep.

Now I love it, I sometimes don't feel like it but dh is very persistent. I give in to his touches and kisess. I never have time becuase I am a mother of four with my mom staying in my house. I have a small business at home I take and pick the kids up from school, they have baseball games. So I really don't have the time to have sex, but I do anyways. I like it more now because dh is more into me and lets me have my fun first then him. Its kind od crazy when my mom is around but when ever she steps outside for a minute we take advantage. Sometimes we have it three times a day. I think that our chores are always going to be there but its important to have comunication and a one on one with your partner because it gets you closer. Im not sure if I will be like this in 10 more years.

I have to agree, its important to keep the spark alive!!  my Dh and I have been together for almost 10 years now, and its most definatly changed pre-kids to when there are kids in the house..   But once we got the hang of bedtimes and sleeping thru the nights, life became a bit more like when we were dating!!   But life sure keeps canging every few years or so!   Last pregnancy, it seemed that all hormones were super active, and all i wanted was some fun in bed, This pregnancy, i'm lucky if i let u hug me, i don't seem to want any 'physical contact'!!   But we're all hoping that morning sickness will ease up soon! 

I have a physical disability that makes sex difficult (although not impossible... we do have a baby). Luckily, I also have an very understanding and creative husband and we have found our own way of doing things. Everybody is happy!

right now I just went back to work and we are working on trying to get schedules worked around again. Dh isn't very good at getting ds to sleep so being tired is my problem.

Well, not right now unfortunatly, 3 more weeks!! till I see the doc for the 6 week check, boy I miss it.............................. But before the birth of Tia it was good but now he travels - so now I'll have to get creative when he is home. I'll be fighting with the kids with time over him with 4 now so any advice????